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Sexual Orientation
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sexual orientation starts to present itself in our early youth. This is when we
start to develop the makeup of what and who we are as individuals. For some life
becomes a complex Pandora's box of confusion due to the programming we receive
from birth that life is black and white and everyone expresses their sexuality
the same way. This way of thinking leads to sexual frustration and the hiding of
emotions. Many people become very depressed at young ages due to sexual shame
and fears of being different.
The heterosexual lifestyle is predominant and is ingrained in our brains from an
early age. The mindset is that man is to "lay with" (have sex with) woman only.
In some places they even step it up a bit, saying that sexual intercourse is
strictly for the purpose of creating life. Whether or not sexual satisfaction is
the ultimate goal of sex, the majority of people in the world consider
themselves to be strictly heterosexual and desire intimacy from the sexual union
of man and woman.
Bisexuality relates to having a sexual orientation to persons of either sex.
This desire for both the male and female gender opens up a plethora of different
facets to sexual expression. We're let out into a world where life isn't as
black and white as many people used to think it was. A lot of bisexual people
affectionately use the term "the best of both worlds" when they describe what
bisexuality is to them. Any way you slice it, it certainly does double your
chances of getting a date next Saturday.
Homosexuality relates to having a sexual orientation to persons of the same sex.
For the male gender, "homosexual" and "gay" are the most common terms used to
express their sexuality and preference for the same sex. For females, the most
commonly used terms relating to their homosexual preferences are "gay" and
"lesbian."
Heterosexuality, bisexuality and homosexuality are all healthy sexual
expressions that have been around since the beginning of time. They have even
been witnessed in the animal kingdom as well.
Within us all lie varied fantasies of experimentation. Many people fantasize
about going outside of our expressed sexual orientation, but due to social fears
they stay imprisoned in an inescapable frustration. Thankfully, there are
outlets for those wanting to experiment and explore these often secret aspects
of their sexual being. By building up and discussing fantasies without
restrictions and role playing with an open-minded phone sex partner, sexual
experimentation by phone can help take them to places they have always wanted to
go but were afraid.
Don't be ashamed or afraid to openly discuss your sexuality with your favorite
phone sex partners. If you call an experienced phone sex operator, be assured
that we're the most open-minded partners that you could ever find. Keep in mind
that the reason we do phone sex is because we enjoy these fantasies just as much
as you do. The mind can be a powerful tool of expression, and imagination is
wonderful thing!
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