Masturbation
Masturbation and phone sex is the act of bringing about sexual gratification
through self-stimulation of the genitals. This act of self-gratification is also
affectionately known to people by many other terms, such as "choking the
chicken," "flicking the bean" and "going on a date with Rosie palm and her five
sisters" to name just a few. Everyone has heard one variation or another.
Statistical evidence shows that almost everyone participates in the act of
masturbation at least once in their lives, but most men and women do it at least
occasionally if not regularly throughout their lives. Masturbation is a normal,
natural act that most people participate in - usually starting around the age of
puberty, which is the stage of adolescence in which an individual becomes
physiologically capable of sexual reproduction. However, some boys and girls
begin to masturbate even before they hit puberty.
Men generally tend to learn to masturbate from an early age on more than women
do, because they're routinely touching their genitals. Women, who are usually
not taught very much about their genitals, are the ones who more often require
assistance, information and guidance concerning techniques in masturbation. For
those who would like to learn the basics in how to masturbate, becoming familiar
with your genital anatomy is the first and most important step. Learning to get
it on with one's self requires self-stimulation of the genitals in some way or
another.
There is no right or wrong way to masturbate. Many people just use their hands
and fingers, while others use objects such as sexual toys or other items that
can be used to produce enjoyable, stimulating sensations. Either way, be it with
hands and fingers or other objects, masturbation techniques can and do vary for
both genders. Male and female masturbation techniques are similar in some ways
but differ primarily due to anatomy.
In male masturbation, a man will usually wrap his hand around and squeeze his
penis, moving it up and down while varying and adjusting the amount of pressure
applied to get the most pleasurable sensations. This can be enhanced greatly
with lubrication, and multiple products are available on the market today
including those made specifically for genital lubrication. Other items can be
used as well, including lotions, baby oil or wet and slippery food items like
vegetable oil or mayonnaise. Most men say they enjoy masturbating in the shower,
where soap and water usually do the trick very well and are considerably less
messy and less expensive than some of the other lubrication options. No special
products or equipment to enhance masturbation need be obtained unless desired.
In female masturbation, a woman will typically stimulate the clitoris, rubbing
it in varying degrees or motions and adjusting as feeling dictates to increase
pleasure. Most women reach orgasm from the stimulation of the clitoris, and
there are many women who also greatly enjoy vaginal penetration or G-Spot
stimulation. Often little or no artificial lubrication is needed for women due
to the fact that an increase in sexual arousal usually produces natural vaginal
secretions that provide adequate lubrication. However, women can and do become
dry sometimes, even while they're still sexually excited, so lubrication can be
highly desirable for use at such times. Although not necessary, many women love
to use a variety of sexual aids like dildos, vibrators and other popular items,
which can be found in any online or real time adult stores.
Besides solo masturbation, another venue in this area is what we call mutual
masturbation. This sexual play between couples, with each partner getting off by
masturbating in front of the other partner, has become a very popular activity
as well. Not only is mutual masturbation considered to be the safest sex you can
have with another person, but it also has been known to be incredibly exciting
sexually. Additionally, a person can really get to learn how his or her partner
likes to be touched and stimulated.
It is not uncommon for couples to bring masturbation practices into their
foreplay rituals or sex play, with each person masturbating at the same time in
front of the other. However, for those who are without partners but who like to
masturbate or talk about masturbation and other sexual issues, phone sex is an
alternative which many adults have found serves as an incredible enhancement to
masturbation. If you don't want to masturbate alone... you don't have to!
Whether its with a live partner or a live phone sex partner who loves to
masturbate and talk about sex just as much as you do, mutual masturbation can be
a very intense and extremely enjoyable sexual experience. Solo or mutual
masturbation, erotic talk and sex play over the phone make for some of the best
and safest enhancements to masturbation you will ever find. Speaking as a horny
woman who has a lot of phone experience, phone play truly is the next-best-thing
to actually being with a live person. Furthermore, a good phone sex partner will
completely make you forget that you're even masturbating alone!
Masturbation has been enjoyed by man (and woman) since the beginning of time.
Although still considered a taboo topic in some circles today, most people in
general are much more liberal about masturbation than they ever used to be. What
once was considered a shameful act that few would admit to participating in is
now more and more recognized by society as a natural, safe and very healthy way
to obtain pleasure and to release stress and sexual tension. Masturbation feels
good, causes no harm to anyone, and the fact is just about everybody does it. |